cnev - you are right, we really should get somebody neutral to do it, i would be more than happy to find somebody. However, the singer (who really is a nice guy) does not like to not be in control im afraid - he would never go for that
Roy - we used to alternate who decided the arrangement for each song. for example, if it was a rock song i would decide what keyboard setting he had, and what part he played, and if it was a keyboard led song, he would say weather or not there was a guitar solo, weather he wanted me to strum or play fills/arpeggios etc - but after a while, he just stopped listening to me, and then insisted i did nothing but strum quietly in the background on all keyboard songs, even croc rock - which in my view is built for some nice fills inbetween the vocals. these days we just do what we want without consulting each other. but that results in the keyboard powering out in songs like sex on fire (

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i think we just want very different things, and one day i can see me being in a rock covers band, and him in an elton john tribute band or something like that. i think the only thing stopping that at the minute is that we are doing well and making enough money that we would certainly miss it if we split up.
"I like to play that guitar. I have to stare at it while I'm playing it because I'm not very good at playing it."
Noel Gallagher (who took the words right out of my mouth)